How can I be a more outgoing confident person upon my return to school?

Start by making a list of all of the things you like about yourself, and taping it up somewhere that you will see it everyday. Then, anytime you think something negative about yourself, replace it with one of the things you have written down. Over time, it will become like a second nature to compliment yourself when feeling down.

Find something that you are really good at, and that you feel good about yourself while doing it, then plan events or hanging out around that one thing. For example, say you are really good about bowling and when you bowl you feel awesome about yourself. Invite some people that make you feel GOOD about yourself, to go bowling with you. It is much easier to be confident and more social when you are doing something that makes you feel good about yourself.

Also, do something like get a haircut, get a manicure or pedicure, or get a new outfit! It’s amazing what a confidence boost you get from any of these things. I actually have a website where you can share your story and get self esteem tips! My website is http://youneedtobeheard.com I also have a website where I create and put together outfits for people online to help boost confidence and self esteem, and that website is http://danicaliforniaoutfits.com I will create you some outfits! My motto is Real Style, Real You. I also have a blog about self esteem, confidence, fitness, and health! It’s http://IAmFree2BeMe.blogspot.com

Remember that you are beautiful inside and out no matter what people might tell you or what you think of yourself. Hold your head held high and think about all of the things YOU love about yourself. Stand your ground and stay true to yourself and what you believe in. Surround yourself with people that make you feel good about yourself and confident. Don’t waste your time on those who make you feel bad!

"Always wear an invisible crown on your head" – Author Unknown