I feel аѕ іf i аm nοt outgoing аt аll аnd lіkе extremely bοrіng tο thе max lol.I Don’t wanna bе thе girl thаt everybody talks bаd аbουt mе saying "___?Yeah ѕhе whatever" I’m pretty shy around people bυt crazy wіth mу friends,Though i wanna bе more outgoing аnd nοt bοrіng. Sometimes whеn i’m іn thе phone wіth mу friends i stay qυіеt οr mаkе wеіrd sounds(Nοt those sounds!) lіkе sounds lіkе "Oh,аm bored" Type οf sounds.Bесаυѕе i feel thаt sometimes mу friends get bored οf mе аnd don’t even wanna talk tο mе bесаυѕе i bееn feeling thаt lately аnd thеу barely text mе lіkе before =/ аnd i сrу sometimes bесаυѕе i thіnk аm a annoying,Dυll,nοt outgoing person thаt nobody really wаntѕ tο hang out wіth οr really talk tο. Please hеlр, Anу hеlр wουld bе grеаt =]
Hοw саn i bе a more outgoing person аnd nοt bοrіng,Nοr annoying?
Thanks!
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Lia Rein
713 days ago
Don’t cry over this please!
I’m sure you’re not that boring. I don’t go out to pubs/clubs and all that cuz i dont like that sort of stuff but i’m not boring- u don’t need to be outgoing to be interesting. I joke around a lot with lots of different people. (lighthearted jokes- not mean). Just having an interesting outlook on things or being funny (lots of people love humour) could help if u think u need it. But don’t cry over it anyway. (and don’t let the voice in ur head talk down to u eg- ‘everybody talks bad about me saying "____? Yeah she watever". I’m sure they don’t do that.)
Good luck
Cal
713 days ago
Find things to talk about with people.
αrιαnnα :D
713 days ago
i’d say the best tip to be outgoing is to just say what’s on your mind.
if you haev a good story to tell based on what someone said, or have your own opinion, go ahead and say it. chances are that you actually have something good to say and people will want to listen.
just try to be yourself and act like you’re interested in the conversation. acting like you’re bored will make them lose interest.
just be yourself and contribute to conversations as much as you can.
breaking out of your shell might be hard at first, but its worth it
Lindsey
713 days ago
have more fun with your friends get out and do things!!!!!! talk to people more!!!!! go places hope i helped!!!!!
JaycatGem
713 days ago
Solving this dilemma starts with the thoughts in your own head. If you think negative thoughts of yourself you will believe it and act them out. This means that you may also avoid doing interesting things and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy eg. "i think I am boring, therefore I will be boring". Can I suggest you exchange your negative thoughts every time you hear yourself saying, Im boring, to "Im very interesting, people like me, I am a good person, I love life etc. etc." then go and do something you have never done before. E.G. indoor rock climbing, buy a cheap mountain bike, go hiking up a huge hill, read the newspaper for weird stories. When people are talking, instead of thinking that they think you are boring, just listen to everything they say and then repeat back to them what you think they are trying to say, people LOVE to be heard, and they will react very positively to you and then you will get constant confirmation that you are wonderful. Then believing it will become even easier.