How can i be more interesting and talkative?

The key is to be interested not interesting. People like it when you ask them about themselves, don’t make yourself up to be something that you are not. Instead start casual conversation about them and it will evolve big time. You ask them a question they’ll talk, then you will be able to relate to it. The key to be outgoing is to not be afraid… think of the worst case scenario- "What’s the worst thing that can happen?"… you get rejected, oh well move on. Not everyone is going to like you or find you interesting. If you initiate conversation and they aren’t saying much then it is them who are probably running out of things to say. Just be interestED instead of interestING and conversation will evolve. Introduce yourself, ask what they do, or like to do for fun, and find a way to relate… if you don’t then you don’t… that simple.

That’s exactly how i feel right about now man .

You know when the right time comes then you are going to go out and simply enjoy life.
And Im glad to hear that you changed.

just be yourself. talk about stuff you know about. what hobbies you have and things you like to do. hang out with people as much as possible because that will give you more opportunity to hone your intrapersonal skills as well as expand your conversational skills.

Drink a couple of vodka.

get a drug addiction and a fast car

you really don’t have to be interesting, say dumb flirty things with them and they will do all the talking, your a dude, dudes do things, girls are talkers

Read about interesting subjects, that way you will always have something to talk about, and participate in conversations.

Basically, girls like guys that can listen to them. So ask them questions and go from there. Or if you don’t really know her that well, ask her questions about stuff you guys should know about. Like "Have you seen this movie…" or "What kind of bands do you listen to.." Then you can tease her about some stuff, because girls like to flirt. Don’t worry, as long as you’re friendly and flirty, you will be able to get girls!

Look at what your friends do.

Human beings are imitative animals. :]

I Was Just Like You Man!
I Didn’t Know What To Talk About And Then I Realized….I Don’t Like Talking. I Prefer Listening. So I Let Chicks Do The Talking And I answer Back Often. It Works For Me But I’m Not Sure If You Would Like To Try It…It Wouldn’t Hurt Though.

Don’t Do It Unless You Really Want To Listen. The Longest Conversation For Me Was 6 Hours. So Just A Heads Up.

Hmm.. create an identity. Talk about your goals and/or theirs. Comment on your surroundings and make relations to whatever pops in your head. Coin catch phrases. Enhance humor by spending time with different people. Enhance everything by spending time with different people. Appropriate some bizarre/interesting/unique interests. Expertize in some fields of thought you;re interested in. I’m out of ideas.

The first thing: what’s interesting to you? What do you normally like to talk about? I mean with anyone, not just girls. The person you talked to the most, what did you get interested in talking about? Chances are, if you’re making up stuff to talk about, they’re going to be as bored as you are.

SO: find a subject you are actually interested in/ know about, then find someone else who likes that subject (this also applies to talking to girls). Chances are: if you’re bored, they are too. It’s your enthusiasm for a subject that’ll help spark interest in someone who also likes that subject.

I think you’re already on your way, though. You want to change. That’s the first step. Not to be cliche or anything, but it’s true.

ok young man two ways you can do this:
1. instead of you talking let them do the talking just ask questions, naturally people like to talk about themselves and brag about themselves. questions about what they like to do most, food, games, weather, ideas they have of after school etc. one question will lead to another at first it will seem hard but continue doing it and you will be good at it, like the reporters do.

2. Talk about thing you like and ideas you have. listen to news and talk about weather, current affairs, politics without being opinionated, cars, games. food, there are a lot etc.

Good luck.

I was the same way, being really shy. But I grew out of that and I just started to talk to people. ask questions and listen, then make comments as you go along the conversation.

I have this problem too at times. I stay quiet… sometimes it’s the smartest thing to do. If not talk about something you both are involved in or something you both can relate to. Also i would reconsider the name "Gare Bear"

you should say random stuff like did you ever notice apple juice doesnt taste like apples? or do you think nascar is dumb. That will get their attention. Then once you find a comfortable topic just talk to them normally.