I used tο bе a very shy аnd introverted person, bυt thеn I joined thе cheerleading team аnd athletics, ѕο I’m nοt аѕ shy аѕ I used tο bе, bυt I’m still really qυіеt аnd nοt very outgoing. Anу advice οn hοw tο ѕtаrt ѕlοw аnd keep building up? Alѕο, I see people talking аll thе time аt thе school, bυt I’m qυіеt cause I hаνе nο clue whаt tο talk аbουt, especially tο guys. Please hеlр!
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Vicky
568 days ago
Your doing the right thing… taking it step by step! Joining clubs is a great way to meet people and learn social skills. To become more outgoing just have a little self confidence… don’t worry about what to say… conversations and socialising is all about feeding off what the other person says/does/is wearing etc! You’ll honestly find that you’ll slip into conversation easy as pie once the other person talks back to you too! Don’t worry about it! all you need is the confidence to start up a conversation!
Take it in steps.. when your walking around don’t look at the floor but look up and smile at people and be friendly… you don’t have to say anything… you can then start maybe mouthing hi to people you don’t know that well across the hallway if u feel confident enough and they might start talking to you!!
Just take baby steps and you’ll get there!
Demetri
568 days ago
Just walk in to a conversation and try to form an opinion.
Hayley N
568 days ago
Just a simple, "Hi, or Heyyy!" To a person (even if you don’t know them, is great!) Smile to your friends or strangers. People in the halls. Talking to guys, just bring up something random….ask them how their day has been… ect. Ask them What’s up. XD Ask a guy if they are in any kind of athletic program. (Swimming, crosscountry ect.) JUst whatever comes to your mind
Also, Keep eye contact with people.
Annie Shay
568 days ago
How to be more outgoing articles
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Be-More-Outgoing-for-the-Naturally-Shy-Introverts-in-the-World&id=415707
http://www.ehow.com/how_4591667_be-more-outgoing.html
http://www.bemoreoutgoing.com/
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing
How to talk to a boy
http://www.wikihow.com/Talk-to-a-Guy-You-Like
http://www.ehow.com/how_4557900_talk-teen-boys-as-teen.html
Hope I helped!
chadbrochill
568 days ago
you cant change yourself into an extrovert. A very common misconception is that you have to be out-going to be popular or attractive, but this is simply not true. Use all the great things about being an introvert to your advantage and be yourself