I’ve always bееn οn thе shy side, bυt I’ve never bееn hарру wіth being thе wallflower. Whаt’s your best advice fοr getting rid οf аll οf mу inhibitions аnd јυѕt relaxing around people? I јυѕt want tο bе аblе tο talk tο nеw people comfortably. Thank уου 
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D, The Writer
688 days ago
I find saying exactly what is on my mind can really liven things up. At first people might be taken aback.. especially if they know you as a wallflower, but they start to feel more comfortable around honesty. If people are comfortable around you… you will feel more comfortable around them. And my way is best. People know who I am. I know who I am. I don’t have to fake anything or remember anything. I feel truly accepted just being me. And it does liven things up when it’s random. And what’s even more awesome is I’ll state some comment about someone that walked by and by friend will look at me with astonishment and start bursting with laughter and confess they were thinking the same thing. You’re not alone in any thoughts you might have and you will be shocked at how not alone you are.
Just take little steps with it so it doesn’t shock your own sensibilities and slowly gain confidence.
Really all I’m saying is be yourself.
musicmaniac1234
688 days ago
smile alot…not the creapy kind lol but smile and make people think that you want to know them.
jump into conversations and laugh…seem like your having a good time. Even if you dont say anything, its always the first step just being there.
When people ask you questions, dont answer in a simple way, talk to them.
Make people laugh. when you present something, try to make your classmates laugh (but dont try too hard)
participate in group/ class discusions- speak your mind
dyana
688 days ago
trust me,i was like this too..
just leave all the shyness apart it wont help u with nothing,be more friendly more talkative and smile
if people ask u questions dont just give them the answer and then dont say anything u ask them the same or something else thats how u make friends and you will forget about being shy
good luck on that!! hope it works on you too!!