Mу boyfriend аnd I аrе, respectably, 16 аnd 18 years οld. Wе′ve bееn going out fοr over 6 months, аrе tο thе point whеrе wе ѕау "I lονе уου" (аnd wе don’t throw іt around); wе hug, hold hands, cuddle аnd kiss.
Hе′s a wonderful guy, аnd I care аbουt him deeply, bυt I hаνе a hard time ѕhοwіng him affection. I аm affectionate іn nature, bυt hаνе a problem wіth ѕhοwіng emotion, bесаυѕе οf thе way I grew up. It frustrates mе, bесаυѕе hе puts іn a lot οf thе effort, аnd I want tο рυt іn more.
Whаt саn I dο tο ѕhοw him hοw I feel? (Don’t even mention sex, waiting til I’m married fοr thаt..)
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Tags: 18 years, affection, cuddle, emotion, hard time, wonderful guy
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Blue
713 days ago
Good girl! Sex CAN wait till marriage. You will be one of the few who won’t be running around with a disease.
Stick with the hugs, holding hands and cuddles. You don’t want it to lead to something you don’t want. Just do more activities together like bowling, jogging, hiking or do a hobby together or learn pottery. You can share fun experiences of "the heart", not the physical. Find a youth group at your local church to do fun things with people your age. Whatever you do do not isolate your self from your friends. Do group events to stay clear of sexual trouble. Good luck!!
Dea
713 days ago
be spontaneous. if you have to will yourself to do something then it’s only fake and useless.
qwenchd
713 days ago
bite his neck lol. works on me
Katy Elizabeth21
713 days ago
You can show affection by buying him gifts. Make him smile, tell him jokes, and cuddle. There are plenty of ways to show affection without being sexual.
la negrita de Brooklyn
713 days ago
you can make him a gift, buy him a gift….take him out on a date….and continue cuddling and kissing him….if he has long hair play with his hair….about sex…yes its a good idea to wait…now days girls are becoming mom younger and younger…
"YOGY"
713 days ago
Be spontaneous, its be going well for six months; continue.
Leona_T
713 days ago
Cook him something delicious. It doesn’t have to be a full meal (although that would be awesome), but something like a cake or cookies would be good.
It is always a positive to know how to cook (this goes for girls and guys). You will find it much easier to attract a partner if you can.
tonya harding
713 days ago
trade spankings …….then kiss and make up with the spanker
angeloneus
713 days ago
Do you want to be more affectionate or show him you love him in different ways?
1. ways to be more affectionate: rub his back, rub his neck, run your fingers through his hair, rub his arm, stroke his fingers while you hold hands, rub his leg with your foot when you are sitting next to each other, give him foot rubs, lean against him when you are sitting or standing, put an arm around his shoulder, rest your mouth or chin on his shoulder and give it a little kiss now and then, offer to wash his hair or help him wash his hands. These all feel really good, they can be done for a couple seconds or an hour, and they all say, "I love you".
2. Nonphysical ways to say I love you: little love notes in his car or on the windshield, in his backpack, a sprig of flowers, a little gift (doesn’t have to cost much, check out Dollar Tree), a greeting card, write a poem, draw a pic of you and him, take photos of the both of you and look at them together, do a chore for him, get tickets for something you know he wants to do, tell him you respect him, make him something good to eat! Hope these help!